The process
The Right Size Method™
Five steps that move you from a house quietly running your life to a home that quietly supports it — in the right order, at a pace that lets you change your mind.
01
Design the Life
Before a single listing enters the conversation, we describe your ideal Tuesday three years from now. Not your ideal vacation — your ordinary Tuesday. Who is at the table, how far you drive, what you do at four in the afternoon. Travel, family, health, work, and the friendships you want within fifteen minutes. The house is the last variable we solve for, never the first.
Typically one to two sessions
02
Run the Numbers
We map your true cost of ownership — the taxes, insurance, utilities, and the maintenance most households systematically underestimate — against your real equity position after selling costs. Then we model the capital gains exposure and what freed equity could do across twenty years. Clarity replaces guesswork, and the answer is often larger than expected in both directions.
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03
Choose the Place
Single-level living, lock-and-leave capability, walkability, proximity to a real hospital rather than a clinic, distance to grandchildren, and the honest carrying cost of each candidate community. We shortlist against the life you described in step one — not against whatever happens to be listed this month.
Three to six candidate communities
04
Release With Grace
A paced, room-by-room plan for decluttering, gifting, consigning, donating, and preserving what genuinely matters. We sequence the easy rooms first and the emotional rooms last, on purpose. Nobody should be asked to compress thirty years into a weekend, and the families who rush this step are the ones who regret it.
Usually three to five months
05
Move Once, Move Well
Sale sequencing, leasebacks, bridge strategies, pre-listing prep, staging, movers, and a coordinated close — engineered so you move a single time, into a home built for the chapter ahead. Moving twice after 60 costs far more than money, so we build the timeline that makes once possible.
Six to ten weeks, start to keys
What goes wrong
The Four Mistakes The Method Is Built To Prevent
Every step above exists because we watched what happens when it is skipped.
Starting with the house
Touring listings before you have described the life is how people end up in a smaller version of the same problem — often with stairs.
Guessing at the numbers
Most households underestimate their true carrying cost by 30 to 40 percent because maintenance is irregular and therefore invisible.
Decluttering first
Sorting thirty years of belongings before you know where you are going is exhausting and, frequently, wasted effort.
Moving twice
An interim rental sounds harmless. In practice it doubles the packing, the cost, and the emotional toll of the entire transition.
Timeline
Most Families Take Six To Twelve Months
Not because rightsizing is difficult, but because doing it once — calmly, in daylight, with the numbers in front of you — is worth far more than doing it fast.
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Start With Step One
A Right Size Strategy Session is a conversation about your life, not a pitch about your house. Sixty minutes, no obligation.